art of the process of recovery, is you often feel you have lost your sense of self. It may not feel like it right now, but this
is an excellent opportunity to rebuild yourself into a more authentic you and come out the other-side a much happier, joyful person. You'll have an incredible positive outlook in life and the unlimited knowing ability that you can create the life you really want for yourself and your family.
It takes courage to do this and not just distract yourself by self medicating with work, alcohol, sex, drugs, old patterns of poor relationships and generally looking for anything to avoid feeling what needs to come up in order to truly heal and avoid repeating past life patterns, which will eventually give you even more pain until you decide to deal with it.
I have put together some inspiring and validating reading that I have used myself. Especially relevant after toxic relationships, one of the greatest gifts I was ever given to rebuild myself to the greatest expression of a human being and the very strong and inner powerful man I am today. I'we used these and many other titles to create not only a new intellectual and emotional experience, but an understanding of our greatest existence on this planet as energetic being having a physical human experience.
Miguel Ruiz works his beautiful magic in <The Mastery of Love>. Miguel explores the pitfalls of our assumptions and beliefs about love and the way in which they limit our ability to enjoy relationship. He also suggests tools and prayers so that we can move out of fear and into a more loving relationship--with ourselves first and then with others. Ever the story-teller, Ruiz also shares several stories and myths which express his teaching as much through the tone of his words as through the content. The heart-felt way in which he imparts his simple wisdom makes this book a joy to read and easy to absorb. Do you want more fulfilling relationships with others--romantic and otherwise? Do you find it difficult to relate to potential friends and lovers without a cynical mindset? If so, I definitely recommend this book.
I have read so many books promising joy in my life, yet I have read none so simple and practical as that of the Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz. The book is a beautiful instruction guide to achieve a life of freedom and happiness. He teaches four lifestyle commitments, which can transform life into the realization of your own personal dream. Written from his heart, the Four Agreements has made profound changes in my life. What seemed insurmountable challenges became powerful lessons which I was able to embrace with faith and love. What is the dream that you hold for yourself? Allow the magic of don Miguel's wisdom to shift your life into a masterful awareness of all you want for yourself.Become the power that you want in your life, realize the opportunities before you and then you can live in a heaven created from the beauty of your own heart.
Don Miguel Ruiz collaborates with his son, don Jose Ruiz, to offer powerful agreement for transforming our lives. The fifth agreement encourages us to see the truth, to recover our authenticity, and to change the message we deliver not only to ourselves, but to everyone around us. The Four Agreements provides the foundation for breaking thousands of agreements that create needless suffering and with The Fifth Agreement you recover all the power of your authenticity, which is who you really are when you are born.
Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the leading expert on violent behaviour, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger - before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including: how to act when approached by a stranger; when you should fear someone close to you; what to do if you are being stalked; how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls; the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person; and more. You can learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.
Psychopath Free is a recovery handbook, guiding survivors through the nightmare of psychopathic relationships from beginning to end. The goal is to make the process a bit more holistic, to provide all the tools you'll need to find validation, self-respect, peace, & love. This book operates under the assumption that you are not defined by your pain, but instead by the subsequent choices you make along the way. Psychopath Free will help you out of the darkness so that you can begin making better choices that will forever alter the course of your life. Unbeknownst to both of you, this is the beginning of a great adventure...
Who is the devil you know? Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband / Girlfriend or wife? Your sadistic high school gym teacher? The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?
In the The Sociopath Next Door, you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He or she is a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopath too.The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopath already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know—someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for—is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.
Researcher, thought leader Dr. Brené Brown offers a new vision in Daring Greatly that encourages us to embrace vulnerability and imperfection, to live wholeheartedly and courageously.
Every time we are introduced to someone new, try to be creative, or start a difficult conversation, we take a risk. We feel uncertain and exposed. We feel vulnerable. Most of us try to fight those feelings - we strive to appear perfect. Daring Greatly is the culmination of 12 years of social research, across the home, relationships, work, and parenting. It is an invitation to be courageous; to show up and let ourselves be seen, even when there are no guarantees. This is vulnerability. This is daring greatly.
Byron Katie's book questions everything we have been taught to think and do to find love and approval and shows how to make the transition to an effective, non-manipulative way of connecting with others. When you live your life focused on thoughts such as 'I need a man' or 'She doesn't't't care about me' you live in fear and end up lonely, stressed, heartbroken and depressed. However, when you start to explore The Work, you can begin to enquire into many of the unquestioned beliefs you have lived by, and can begin to change.
Eckhart Tolle's A New Earth will be a cornerstone for personal spirituality and self-improvement for years to come, leading readers to a new levels of consciousness and inner peace. Taking off from the introspective work The Power of Now, which is a number one best-seller and has sold millions of copies worldwide, Tolle provides the spiritual framework for people to move beyond themselves in order to make this world a better, more spiritually evolved place to live. Shattering modern ideas of ego and entitlement, self and society, Tolle lifts the veil of fear that has hung over humanity during this new millennium, and shines an illuminating light that leads to happiness and health that every reader can follow.
The shadow is a part of the unconscious mind consisting of repressed weaknesses and base instincts. Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser it is. Now today's most popular spiritual teachers, Debbie Ford, Marianne Williamson, and Deepak Chopra join forces in this remarkable exploration of the dark side - the emotions and traits we are most afraid of and instinctively hide. When we reject or refuse to acknowledge this part of our nature we become susceptible to those emotions and traits negatively impacting us.
What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now. In The Way of the Superior Man David Deida explores the most important issues in men's career and family to women and intimacy to love and offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this best selling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfilment, immediately and without compromise
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